No matter what we do and what we accomplish we always end up getting compared, no matter how hard we work there is always somebody out there who is better than us and then somebody who is best!! just a moment and we got compared again..and there is a list of people to be blamed.
But just take a moment and think aren’t we doing same to ourselves? aren’t we comparing ourselves?? no matter what you say, I say we do comparisons when it comes to job or money or world tour…somehow we think why them and not us? for example you just logged in facebook and you saw a checkin from one of your friend who have started working abroad and now will be earning some fat money…at that particular moment aren’t we going to get jealous? and eventually end up thinking all the worst decisions we made in our lives and will soon end up regretting..without even thinking for once that what that friend must have faced to be there where he is today. No matter where he is ,he will still end up getting compared to someone even better.
we compare our thigh gaps and even our social media posts and often tried to validate our existence by showing off that somehow we are better and cooler than other and this is what I say we are comparing ourselves.
we stuff ourselves from stress and competition. sometimes we often push down our own opinions down the gutter because they are not practical enough. lets take a moment and breath and let us explore all our ideas and opinions for ourselves and for once lets not do comparisons..let’s leave this comparison thing to others, anyways they will still compare us. lets appreciate what we got and work hard for what we want…